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Making Healthy Changes in Your Family: One Step at a Time

December 8, 2009 by Joi 2 Comments

Colorful Vegetables

I recently had a funny e-mail conversation with an online buddy about healthy foods. She’s a regular visitor to my recipe blog and, good-naturedly, made fun of my inclusion of turkey bacon on my Current Top 10 List of Healthy Foods and Drinks. She said something to the effect of preferring to have her face ripped off than to ever eat turkey bacon.

Silly girl. That’d hurt.

I finally got her to admit that she’d never even tried turkey bacon and, I think, she kind of sort of maybe consented to give it a go this week.

I’m just glad to see more people taking charge of their health in the most important place: In their own kitchen. When you stop and think about the diseases that can be avoided, and even improved, by eating the right foods and drinks – you can’t help but want to eat a healthier diet.  Don’t listen to your inner negativity – healthier food isn’t always more expensive, it most certainly doesn’t taste bad, and you won’t even miss the unhealthy alternatives.  In fact, you’ll probably start feeling so good that many of them will sort of gross you out!

I’ve actually been quite successful at introducing healthier foods to my family.  They love grilled and baked fish and chicken, steamed vegetables, green tea, oatmeal, fruit, and didn’t even through me out of the house when I served Sweet Potato “fries.”  My husband crinkled his nose when he saw them, but he actually seemed to really like them.

The following are a few things you might want to keep in mind when trying to get anyone (including yourself!) to eat/drink healthier:

  • If you don’t buy it, it won’t be eaten. Leave the unhealthy foods and drinks on the grocery store shelves.  Hold food accountable before putting it into your cart.  If it doesn’t have any nutritional value, let it stay where it is.  Roll your cart and your health on down the aisle.
  • Kids, kids, kids. Big and small kids can be difficult to navigate around when it comes to healthy foods.  But, not only CAN it be done – it MUST be done. Their health depends upon it. If a child is given healthy food, he or she will eat it.  Of course, the adult can’t be sitting beside them making all kinds of horrid faces about it – it’ll scare the wits out of them!   If you have fruit, cereal bars, little cups of apple sauce, mixed fruit, smoothies, and such on hand – your kids will eat them.  What’s more, they’ll like them.  Allow them to pick out their favorite healthy foods.  Fortunately, many food manufacturers are making it easy on parents by making the packaging more attractive to kids.
  • Start out with small changes. Have dried fruit in the bowl that once held candy.  Dried banana chips and pineapple are most excellent.  Instead of potato chips, offer up air-popped popcorn and nuts (except for very small children, of course).  Introduce a new type of vegetable at different meals – repeat those that are liked, revamp those that are ignored.  Replace soft drinks with fun pouches of fruit juice.  Kids love them – but make sure little ones don’t run through the house with those little straws.
  • Navigate the Grocery Store like a pro. Stay completely out of the aisles that bring nothing but trouble – potato chip aisles, soft drink aisles, the bakery aisle for crying out loud… or maybe I should say for gaining out loud!  Become a regular grazer in the produce section as well as the Health Food department.  Also, try out different Lean Cuisine and Healthy Living frozen meals for lunches.  Again, allow kids and spouses (after all, they aren’t totally unlike children, are they?!) to pick out their own.
  • Read those labels – some are horror stories. Often you think you’re doing well by cutting calories only to realize that you’re consuming enough sodium to make a replica of Lot’s wife.  Biblical refresher course:  She looked back. She turned to salt.  Moral – if God says GO, GO and don’t look back. Don’t focus on the calories as much as the nutritional value, or lack thereof.
  • When given the choice between white or brown (bread, rice, pasta..) – go with brown. In order to turn products white – fat is added.  Ick.  I have to admit, wheat pasta can take a little getting used to.  For me, it isn’t the taste as much as the smell – it just smells different.  Fortunately, I use a lot of herbs and garlic when I cook, so I can outsmart my nose.
  • When eating out, always go for grilled or baked rather than breaded or fried. Also, falling in love with Subway has done wonders for many people. Frankly, I love Subway as much as any fast food restaurant.  It always smells so fresh and amazing inside and the food?  Delicious.
  • The more color on your plate, the better. I’ve always loved serving really colorful meals to my family – even before I fully registered the health benefits.  Always serve up plenty of dark greens, rich reds and oranges, purples, and yellows.  Eating a variety of fruits and vegetables will reward you with a healthier body.  Not only will you be healthier and look better – you’ll feel better, with more energy.  Suddenly you’ll feel years younger!

Read on to find out my Current Top 10 Favorite Healthy Foods and Drinks.

Filed Under: Fitness, Health Tagged With: green tea, health, healthy foods, nutrition

A Few Dental Tips from a Very Humble Bumble

December 4, 2009 by Joi 9 Comments

I had a painful dental procedure done yesterday – which is why I wasn’t on the blog yapping about this or that.  It’s hard to yap when you’re laid up in bed watching I Love Lucy DVDs and wishing the day away.  For some reason, I simply can’t be sufficiently numbed at a dentist.  My daughter Brittany is the same way.  We’re given up to six shots – when two are all that most people require – yet, we still feel the pain.  They had to give her laughing gas on a recent trip.  Lucky girl.

Anyway, a lot of the problem was my own fault.  I broke a back tooth ages ago while chomping on popcorn.  Instead of having it seen to right away, I just sort of ignored it.  That never really works out now that I think about it.

I’ve already given all of my daughters the lecture about dental care and preventive measures – so now I’m here to lecture you.  If you don’t have a regular dentist, find one and go in for a check up.  I know money’s an issue for all of us – except for those fortunate few with killer dental insurance – but, believe me, taking care of your teeth is money well spent.  Besides, if you catch problems (a-hem) early, the cost will be a lot lower.

Also, many dental offices offer initial consultations and x-ray free.  Aspen Dental (in Owensboro, KY) did, which is one of the reasons I chose them.  They gave me a great once over, which included x-rays and even a thorough exam by a dental hygienist.  All I had to pay for was the extraction – and that was, quite honestly, a couple of hundred dollars less than I expected.

Here’s something kind of funny.  Now.  The night before my dental extraction, I was watching television, trying to think about anything else but what the next morning would bring.  I figured Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer would be safe…… forgot all about Herbie the elf who wasn’t happy in his work.  Forgot all about Herbie wanting to be a dentist.  Forgot all about him removing every tooth in the abominable snowman’s head – creating a humble bumble with no choppers!

I had to laugh.  It hurt, but I had to laugh.

A little dental advice:

  • If you have something wrong, have it seen to immediately.  Most dentists have payment plans for those of us who don’t have insurance and aren’t blissfully rolling in money.
  • Procedures have probably changed since the last time you went and things aren’t nearly as frightening or painful as you remember.  I didn’t even mind my shots, actually.
  • Take excellent care of your teeth.  Use fluoride, the best toothpaste you can find, and floss every single night.
  • I know you won’t avoid chocolate any more than I will – but brush your teeth afterward.  We can agree to that, can’t we??
  • Start your children out on the right, healthy dental path.  Teach them to brush as carefully as you teach them to wash their hands during cold and flu season.  Also, begin taking them to a dentist at an early age – so they come to associate dentists with good memories.  Having your teeth cleaned feels tingly and good after all!  If their first association with a dentist is pain, that’ll stay with them.  I guess that’s what happens to most people.
  • When you are at a dentist’s office, don’t be afraid to ask, “How much is this going to cost me?”  If the person you ask isn’t sure, he or she will find someone who is.
  • Never agree to a procedure or examination without first asking, “Will this cost extra?”  When we’re already a little apprehensive (personally, the words scared spitless apply) we tend to not think clearly.  Oh, Lord. can that ever be costly!  These days, you just have to be obnoxiously careful:  Politely say that you are working within a budget and that you MUST know how much money you’ll be required to pay.  It’s been my experience that everyone understands – after all, they have their own budgets, too.  Remember, in life very few things are free – so don’t expect them to be.  Ask, ask, ask.
  • If you happen to be taking herbs for other health reasons, stop if at all possible a few weeks before your dental procedure.  Years ago, I had to have a wisdom tooth removed.  I happened to be taking a particular over the counter herb (saw palmetto) for another health concern.  Many herbs interfere with blood clotting – something I didn’t know at the time.  This led to really bad problems in my healing process and, what’s more, I bled off and on for about 24 hours!

If you have a tooth extraction:

  • Follow the dentist’s orders to a letter.  Don’t smoke (no problem for me.. never have, never will), don’t use a straw for 24 hours, and avoid hot food and drinks for 24 hours – they interfere with the blood clotting and healing process.
  • Don’t spit, it may cause more bleeding.
  • Get plenty of rest and drink lots of water.
  • Ibuprofin is your friend.
  • If you have antibiotics, take them with a little soft food.  Take them all, leave none behind.
  • My husband brought me something that saved me:  KFC mashed potatoes and gravy.  I let them cool off, then I dove right in.  He also brought me home some pre-made puddings (chocolate – my guy knows me) jell-o, and cinnamon applesauce.  Sigh.  I loves him.
  • Don’t rinse your mouth for 24 hours.

The main thing I want you to take away is this:  Don’t put off going to the dentist.  They want to help you and they aren’t nearly as painful or expensive as you probably think they are.  And, like I said, for procedures that are pricey – there are almost always payment options.  Look into it!

Chances are your dentist has a website – give it a look sometime! It could have some very helpful advice – this Burlington dentist, for example, has a whole host of tips and FAQs on lumineers, invisible braces, brushing and flossing, and general oral health and hygiene.

Okay, your lecture is over.  Now go have a glass of milk.

Filed Under: Fitness, General, Health, Self Help Tagged With: dental advice, dental health, dental tips

Make a Difference in the Life of a Child This Christmas

December 4, 2009 by Joi Leave a Comment

Toys for Tots Bear

“We make a living through what we get, but we make a life through what we give.” – Winston Churchill

During a Christmas season when all of us are feeling the tightening of the money belt,we have to be careful not to get sidetracked with the wrong kinds of thoughts…. “stinkin’ thinkin'” as it were.  Christmas shouldn’t be a time for worrying, fretting, or stressing over how much we’re able to buy or not buy.  Christmas is a time for celebrating!

Now, having said that, I  completely understand wanting to have the house all decked out in beautiful colors and lights.  I understand wanting to have oodles of cookies, piles of fudge, and jars of homemade candies.  As a doting (there really can be no other word for it) wife and mother, I most certainly understand wanting to buy your husband the best sweaters, your daughters the loveliest lovelies, and your sons the best games.  What’s more, we want them all wrapped in the most gorgeous gift wrapping possible.

Then there’s the bank balance – letting you know, every step of the way, that this year isn’t quite like any other.  At least not one like most of us have ever seen.  Since I can remember, Christmas was always bright, wonderful, and lavish.  As an only child, most Christmases presented me with so many presents I was positively worn out at the end of it all.

However, none of the toys, stuffed animals, bikes, barbie airports, barbie townhouses, dolls (not even the one that tumbled) symbolize Christmas for me.  When I think back over my favorite Christmases, I think of…

  • My MeMe’s divinity – she was paralyzed on one side but could outbake just about anyone!
  • My mom’s peanut butter fudge
  • The year my grandmother set out her Nativity set and gave Mary’s position to a shepherd and put Mary in the back with the sheep.  When I asked her why she wanted to change history, she nearly collapsed in laughter.  I was 10 at the time, but her laugh is still in my mind… and heart.
  • The year my mom broke with tradition and decorated her tree all fru-fru like with mauve bows, angel heads, and baby’s breath.  My very traditional dad snarled at it every time he passed by it.  One night as he happened to be turning off the lights, my mom called from the back of the house, “Turn off the tree lights, we don’t want it catching fire!”  Just then, he flipped the switch back on and winked at me.
  • The first year my husband and I were married – he was in the military and money wasn’t exactly flowing in our direction.  We went to a craft’s store and loaded up on supplies.  Then we went home and, after I baked us some warm chocolate chip cookies – we made gifts for everyone in our family.  They still have, and treasure, them!  We had a blast, too.  I do remember, however, losing my husband a few times during the process when football was on television.  Then, again to be fair, he lost me a few times when UK basketball was on.
  • Watching Christmas specials with our girls when they were little.  These days, if Johnny Depp, Miley Cyrus, or Tyra isn’t in the special – my girls aren’t in the room.  That’s cool with me, my cat Alexa and I watch them anyway!
  • I remember our cat Prissy always climbing the Christmas tree -every single year!  I stopped using breakable ornaments when she was still alive, because I didn’t want her hurting herself. Get this – I didn’t even use the hooks during the Prissy years.  When she hit 20 years, she didn’t get much higher than the bottom branch, but she still gave it a go.  Thankfully, Alexa (a good 10 pounds heavier) is content to lie under the tree and sneak into presents.

The list of memories goes on and on and on, but the remarkable thing is, what I received or didn’t receive is nowhere near the top of the list.  It just didn’t matter.  Laughter did, love did, chocolate did.  And Mary in the field.

If you’re cutting back this year, don’t fret it and don’t sweat it!  In fact, I’d like to make a suggestion:  Take a particular area and do something completely selfless and wonderful instead.  For example:  If you planned on decorating the outside of your house, use the money for Toys for Tots instead.   Go to the website and find out when they’ll be collecting toys in your area, then go straight to the store and buy some fantastic toys to give.  If you do this (for example) in place of lighting up your house – you will have a great deal of money to spend on toys.

Which had you rather light up – your yard or the face of a child in need.  Not even close.

Another suggestion: If your office normally has a huge Christmas party or dinner, suggest this year that each individual brings in a toy for children.  Then, appoint someone to take the collection to Toys for Tots or another agency which is moving Heaven and earth to help children.  If you and I are feeling the pinch this year, for crying out loud (literally) can you imagine the predictament others are in?  The thought of a child not having a present on Christmas makes me want to cry. (In fact, there come the tears now.)

I’m just incredibly afraid that, this year, toys and donations are going to be especially low and there will be many, many children left out.

Please, please, please go to Toys for Tots right now and learn more about your local campaign.

If you make one precious child smile this Christmas – whether you realize it or not, you had a richer Christmas than most could ever hope for.  The smile on a child’s face will warm God’ s heart more than a billion lights.  I suspect it’s the kind of light show angels line up to see!

Toys for Tots

Filed Under: Helping Children, Make a Difference, Must Reads, Positive Thought Tagged With: Helping Children

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