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“Better Keep yourself clean and bright. You’re the window through which you must see the world.” – George Bernard Shaw
This George Bernard Shaw quote is an excellent reminder that everything – absolutely everything – begins and ends with us. It’s a reminder to keep our thoughts and hearts as clean and free from worries, anxieties, and negativity as we possibly can.
This is one of those great inspirational and motivational quotes that is worth – not just writing down…. but memorizing!
~ Joi
It’s not something I’m particularly fond of doing, but I do (every now and then) reflect on mistakes I’ve made – whether they were in the past year, the past day….or if I’m in really rare form, in the past hour. No, I’m not a pessimist. And I’m definitely not a sadist – I’m a realist. A realist who has come to realize that our greatest lessons lie in the text books of our mistakes.
If you were to think back over some of your own beauts, you’d find lessons that were learned, whether you even realized it at the time or not. Maybe you nearly made yourself sick-and-or-nuts by trying to do too much. You realized what you were doing, scaled back and learned a very valuable lesson.
Maybe you misspelled a word in a blog post and were called out by a human spell checker. Perhaps the bite of their words caused you to double check your’s forevermore.
Maybe one of your biggest mistakes was a big fat jump into the wrong conclusion and the lesson, “Look before you leap” has stayed with you since. (Make no mistake about it….excuse the pun….this lesson is a great one!)
So, the next time you make a mistake, don’t kick yourself around 4 counties. Don’t stew in your own juices, and most certainly don’t call yourself hateful names.
Rather, take yourself out for a Latte (or Frappuccino if the weather’s warm) and toast yourself for a brand new lesson. You won’t be celebrating the mistake – you’ll be celebrating the lesson it taught and the wisdom you’ve gained. Said another way, you’ll be toasting to self growth – so, go ahead and have a cookie, too.
Hold each mistake accountable for itself – demand your lesson!
~ Joi
*** By the by, a warm and wonderfully friendly woman recently e-mailed me asking if she could use one of my Quote graphics on the site (I believe it was on one of the Quotes pages). She said she had trouble finding images for her posts and would love to use one I’d made about Eagerness. I told her exactly what I’m telling you now – I’d be honored for you to use any of the ones I’ve done, as long as you give an active link back to Self Help Daily on your blog or web site. I’m making more that’ll be popping up all over the site – all I ask if for a link back.
Does that make me a link desperado? I guess you could bet your sweet a href it does.
Whatever it is we DON’T HAVE is missing for a reason. And if we keep motoring along, as is, we’ll never have it. After all, if we we’re drawing it to us with our present actions, wouldn’t we have it?
Around coffee cup #4, I sat myself down and had a little self help Q & A. I brought up certain things in my life that I wish were a little different. Let’s not get into the fact that my arms don’t remotely resemble Halle Berry’s (seriously, what does the woman do?).
I’ll get depressed if I think about my arms, so we’ll use time management as an example. It’s a pretty universal dilemma. I, like most people, always find myself wishing I had more time.
I work at home, full time, as a web publisher. At any given time, I have between 14 and 20 websites/blogs that I write for, maintain, tweak, publicize, etc. Now do you understand the coffee addiction?
The number of times I draw up a daily schedule – only to have to draw up a new one is staggering. And depressing. I recently sat down with pen and paper (along with the “regulars,” a cat nearby and a bottomless cup of coffee) and took myself to task. I realized that, like most people, I’d fallen into the trap of thinking that MORE was synonymous with BETTER.
If 5 websites are good, then 10 are better. Right?
Not so much.
I’ve realized after quite a few years (and even more crumpled up schedules scratched out on printer paper) that more isn’t always better. Sometimes LESS is actually better because then you have more of yourself to go around. No one… and I mean no one… is at their absolute best when they’re spread out as thin as a layer of mayo on a ham sandwich.
Sometimes something has to give – no matter what area of life we’re talking about. Truth is, sometimes its exit is what sets the stage for something better’s grand entrance.
If anything is in your way, the sooner you get rid of it – the sooner something better can come along. Spend a little time thinking about the quote above and see what your subconscious comes up with.
It just may be the thing to open up a whole new world!