How to Blog & Make Money Blogging

If you’re interested in blogging and aren’t sure how to set up a blog, here’s a compilation of articles, tips, and advice I’d love to share with you. I’ve included my favorite theme(s), plugins, and tools of the trade. I’ve been making money, full time, blogging for a number of years and I’d love to offer any help and advice that I can.

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Writing Journal for Writers and Bloggers

To Be a Better Writer.....Write!

by joi

in Blogging, Book Reviews

365 Things to Write About, Writing Journal

I was recently sent a great writing journal (365 Things to Write About!) to review and I’m loving every minute of it. I know it’s something all writers and bloggers will enjoy as well. What’s more, this writing journal can actually help anyone become a more creative, imaginative, and prolific, writer.

A writer, whether he/she is a blogger, novelist, short story writer, poet, freelance writer, children’s author, greeting card writer, screenplay writer, or song writer, is only as good as their imagination. That’s where a great writing journal can come into play. The journal serves as a prompt for the writer to broaden and express their creativity on each page.

Book Description

Publication Date: July 6, 2011

Unleash your vivid imagination across the pages of this eclectic, creative writing journal! How do you envision Shangri-La? A couch potato? The color red? Explore a multitude of writing styles (analytical, prose, poetry, songs, screenplays, etc.) to describe everyday objects and places, exotic locales, abstract concepts, imaginary creatures, and more.

365 Things to Write About is the perfect writing tool for people of all ages and skills, who seek a fun and inspiring way to explore their creative minds!

Here’s the premise: There are 365 words or phrases throughout the journal.  Your assignment, if you choose to accept it (cue the Mission Impossible music), is to write a short story, journal entry, or even a poem using that word or phrase.  The choices for the words and phrases are quite creative themselves!  Here’s an extra challenge I’ve been doing: When you’ve completed two adjacent pages, come up with a short story, poem, or entry using BOTH of the words.   My favorite one involved the two words MEADOW and MEDUSA.  It became the stuff horror stories are made of.

If, like me, you are a web publisher or blogger, you’ve probably ran face first into the dilemma of not knowing what to write about.  My advice for this dilemma has always been summed up in one word: Write! The MORE you write, the more freely the words and ideas flow.  Because I write so much every day, I am able, literally, to sit down at any given time and crank out several hundred words on any given topic.  I write… therefore I write.  Writing journals are excellent resources for training your creative mind and flexing your writing muscles.

The 365 Things to Write About! writing journal is a great, inexpensive investment. Click through to read more.

The Art of Manliness

Human Creativity on Manly Display

by joi

in Blogging, Must Reads

Peter Graves, Mission Impossible

I was on the brink of sharing the link to this creative, innovative, imaginative, clever, witty, and informational website on Twitter but then it hit me – why keep it from people who may not be on  Twitter (if any such people exist). My oldest daughter Emily and I LOVE to find new websites and show them to one another.   We try to outdo one another and, I’m afraid, I have to give her the WIN this week. All caps.

Somehow, my ridiculously feminine, small-framed, tea-drinking daughter came across a website so manly you can practically smell the Old Spice.   It’s called The Art of Manliness and it’s both a hoot and a holler.  However, it’s not just FUN (again, all caps), the advice, tips, and instructions are actually very informative and helpful – not that there’s a generation of males that could benefit from such information or anything…

Whether you’re male or just know a male, you’ll want to check out this website.  I noticed that it’s on the Thesis WordPress Theme, which is cool.  SO many great websites and blogs are built with Thesis! Before I break out in a Thesis plug, I’ll just say again… check out The Art of Manliness!

 

 

Scribe SEO Plugin Review: Take Two

Plus: Theme Wars and Angry Birds

by joi

in Blogging

Scribe SEO Plugin Review Since my original Scribe SEO Plugin Review, the mega minds behind the plugin have taken its SEO power even further.  It’s all about KEYWORDS, CONTENT, and LINK JUICE.  See, Tiger blood has nothing on LINK JUICE. Tiger blood does link juice’s laundry.

And likes it.

I get a lot of e-mail from men and women who want to know more about blogging and web publishing.  Some want to make their living from the sport full time, others want to generate a little extra income, and some are simply seeking new creative outlets and ways to reach out and tickle the world’s fancy.    Apparently they think I’m quite the fancy tickler :\ so I get questions from complete newbies, people who have been doing this for some time, and from bloggers who have singed hair from major burn out.  Fortunately I love e-mail buddies, so we go back and forth and back and forth again.  E-mail’s frightfully overlooked.  Unlike social media sites, it doesn’t cut you off at a certain number of words.  In case you haven’t noticed, I have the gift of gab.

When doling out my wisdom (spewing the few facts I know) and sharing my experience (trial and error, rinse and repeat), I find myself giving different variations on the same advice:

  • Buy your own domain
  • Use WordPress and don’t even THINK about anything else
  • Never try to be anyone you’re not
  • Write about things you know and care about
  • WordPress Theme? It depends on the needs of your particular website/blog.  I intentionally have the BIG THREE on my various sites: The Thesis Theme, StudioPress Themes, and Woo Themes.  I could have easily gone exclusively with any of the three, but as a web publisher with many websites, I wanted to try each of them and see where each one’s strengths were.  I keep a very close eye on the performance of each website – I mean, I do this full-time for a living. Web publishing isn’t a hobby for me, it’s my career.  When it’s your career and everything professionally is at stake, you dot you each i and cross each t very carefully.  In the way that each kitchen appliance has a particular function and place in your culinary endeavors, each of these themes is beautiful for particular needs. If you were to tell me what you were looking for with a particular website or blog, I could tell you which of the three I’d recommend but, honestly, you couldn’t go wrong with any of these themes.  Some people get pretty worked up and passionately defend or attack other themes, but as someone who works with each one on a daily basis, I can tell you this – like it or not, they each rock.  It all comes down to what you’re looking for, how much know how you have (and how much you need the theme to do most of the work for you).  I’ll be honest with you, sometimes I’d kind of like to go with one theme exclusively – it’d make it easier for my brain when it came to upgrading or updating, as each one requires different actions, different steps, etc.  But, as it is, my different sites require different themes – so it is what it is.  Why does each one of these themes have to be so killer?!?!  I actually love the fact that different theme developers are pushing one another to UP their games.  They’re bringing out the best in one another and, as someone who benefits from them being at their best, I’m all for it!
  • Scribe SEO Plugin. You need it.  I don’t care how long you’ve been at it – this is something you need in your arsenal.  Personally, I think I’ve given the tools in these bullet points in the order of importance – Your own domain, followed by a great theme, followed by the Scribe SEO plugin. While the theme wars will continue, when it comes to premium plugins, Scribe SEO stands alone.  Basically, having the Scribe SEO plugin on your blog is equivalent to having an SEO expert sitting beside you each time you sit down to work.  Some of the greatest minds in SEO and website development have poured their knowledge into this plugin and, honestly, it’s pure gold.   If you read Self Help Daily regularly, you know that I don’t pitch many products to you.  Self Help Daily is about helping you get the most out of yourself.  However, when there are tools that can help you do just that, I have no problem pitching away.  I want you to be the best you can be and I want you to get everything from life that you want – and then some!  So when I extol the virtues of things I love such as the Scribe SEO plugin or my beloved NordicTrack, know that I believe 100 percent that they can get you there.

There are a lot of things you can’t control online.  Google’s updates, who follows you on Twitter, who befriends you on Facebook, who links to you, who Diggs you, and so on.  It’s even hard to control your page rank.  People who once linked to you may all of a sudden remove your link or disappear entirely.   It happens and it isn’t pretty.

However, like all things in life, you can’t worry about the things that are out of your hands.  You have to take care of the things that are right there in the palms.  YOU are in complete control of your domain, the theme(s) you use, the content you write, and the extra push-to-the-front-of-the-line power that Scribe SEO can give you.  If you haven’t read my original Scribe SEO Plugin Review, I urge you to do so now.  Everyone needs an edge and Scribe can give it to you.

The Scribe SEO plugin is 100 percent easy to use and even easier to install.  I’ll let you in on a little secret, it’s fun too.  Seriously, using this plugin to tweak your writing is a really fun challenge.   It isn’t just fun, it’s Angry Birds fun.

Make each moment count double!
~ Joi

 

How to Make Money Writing Online

Get Paid to Write Online!

by joi

in Articles, Blogging, General, Self Help

Right out of the box, I want to apologize for the cheesy title.  I mulled over a few others in my mind then thought, oh just cut to the chase.

The cheesy chase, as it were.

Most people are looking for ways to make more money these days.  I’m not sure why, I mean the economy did an about face, right? </ sarcasm> I can’t even begin to advise anyone on jobs outside of the home (never had one… well, I babysat once when I was 16, does that count?).

However, I am more than a little familiar with working online. I’ve been at it for many enjoyable years.

I’ve written other articles on Self Help Daily about building blogs, publishing blogs, and making money with blogs:

50 Tips, Plus 4, For Tripping the Blog Fantastic

Bloggers and Would-Be Bloggers, For Your Eyes Only

Being Sly as a Firefox When Blogging

Frequency of Blog Posts

Words of Motivation from a Fellow Blogger

A Great Must Read for Bloggers

The ABC’s of Blogging

There are others, of course – all of which can be found under the category BLOGGING.

I have done very well with web publishing and, if you have the drive and the time, it’s something you should consider.  If you have any questions, I’m just an e-mail away.

This article, however, isn’t about making money with blogging. This article is for those who either don’t have the inclination to blog or who are bloggers who wish to make even more money.  After all, life’s a beautiful thing – but it isn’t getting any cheaper to enjoy it. Below are a few websites you may want to look into.  There are varying requirements and the pay, most certainly, varies.

About.com One of the most popular and informative websites online accepts About.com Guides and Contributing Writers.  Guides are responsible for creating a “web” of resources within a particular niche (subject).  The Guide must be able to write articles that are informative to the novice as well as articles that will challenge and inform the expert.  About.com has a list of subjects which they are currently seeking Guides for.

About.com also has a list of subjects in which they’re seeking qualified writers.

With the reputation of this website (combined with the fact that they’re rumored to pay the most), this would be an excellent place to start you journey if you’re looking to make money writing online.

Associated Content – Associated Content is another great way to make money writing online.  Payments are made through Paypal and, like About.com, the reputation is golden.

As a bonus, I personally think having Associated Content contributor on one’s resume would look pretty impressive.  The same can be said of being an About.com Guide or Contributing writer.  If you were to one day branch out into writing for magazines or books, being able to back up your expertise with these reputable websites could really make a difference.

From Associated Content:

Upfront Payments:  Certain types of content can be submitted for Upfront Payment, meaning we’ll review your content, and send you an offer before we publish it. Current offers range from $2-$15. Be sure to read our Upfront Payment guidelines before choosing this option.

Assignments:  Need an idea? Just look at our Assignment Desk – the Web’s first – and claim one! Many assignments offer Upfront Payment. Claim one of these opportunities and we’ll send you the advertised payment amount if your content meets the requirements. Once you’re established on Associated Content, you can apply to our Featured Contributor program. Featured Contributors have access to top-dollar assignments for AssociatedContent.com and partner sites (these assignments typically pay between $10 and $100 upfront).

Performance Payments: Every piece of content you publish on AssociatedContent.com generates unlimited revenue for you based on the amount of traffic it receives (in addition to any Upfront Payment).

You earn money for every one thousand page views your content generates (PPM™ rate). The baseline PPM™ rate is currently $1.50 – meaning if you generate 30,000 page views, you’re paid $45.00 in Performance Payments. As your library of content grows and your total page views accumulate, your Clout level increases. When you reach Clout 7 and beyond, your PPM™ rate will gradually increase up to a maximum of $2.00 per thousand page views. Click here to read more about the Clout system.

Our top Contributors earn hundreds (in some cases, thousands!) of dollars per month in Performance Payments – and so can you. Performance Payments are sent monthly and are based on an aggregate of the page views on all your content – the more you publish, the more you can earn!

E-How.com – Finally, E-How.com is a fun way to make money online.  This is actually the only one of the three suggestions here that I write for.  I plan to look into the others, however, simply because I love to write.  As someone who writes, I’ve found that the best way to hone your writing and keep your skills sharp is to use them as often as possible.

When I first signed up with E-How, I found that (instantly) doing extra writing made words flow more freely.  When anyone asks me how I come up with so much to write about and how I keep the well from running dry – my answer’s always the same:  I never stop!

E-how articles show up incredibly well in Google, and since your payment is based upon the number of eyes that read your article – this is a very good thing for you.

  1. Look to the past, as in the Public Domain. Books that were written prior to 1930 often carry a wealth of information.  I use them often in my research – after all, a lot of advice simply doesn’t change.  I also read them for fun.  I recently began reading a book filled with tips and advice from teachers (Copyright 1918) and principals.  The book reads beautifully and is like a journey into history each time I open the book.  The point is, I grabbed a notebook and pen a few nights ago, while reading this amazing book, and counted up information that could potentially be converted into 100 articles.  Truth be told, I flat-out quit at 100 – it was undoubtedly a lot more.  The same could be said for countless other books in the public domain.
  2. Are you a fan of libraries? I (along with daughters #1 and #3 aka Emily and Stephany) could spend days on end in a library – assuming coffee is served. Often.  You could very well take a great notebook and a couple of pens to your local library and research a given subject.  Accumulate as much great information as possible and turn it into articles.
  3. You can also write informative how-to articles and tutorials about things you’re good at or things you know how to do. I’m an avid cook, so I’ve written several articles centered around cooking and recipes. For someone who’s kitchen is their favorite playground, turning out articles like this takes very, very, very little time.

When it comes to making money writing online, it’s like a lot of other things in life – you can make as little or as much as you’d like.  Nothing can stop you except your own goals and your own determination.

These are, of course, just three of the many places available to make money writing online.  There are many others.  I’m in the process of checking into the others for a follow-up post, but I wanted to go ahead and run with these three.

Cheesy title and all.

Writers, here’s something really fun: I Write Like is a website that will analyze your writing and tell you which author you “write like.” They’ll compare your writing style to some of the greatest authors in the world and let you know who’s style yours’ most resembles.

I entered a few paragraphs from a recent blog post and I was told that my writing most resembles Gertrude Stein.  I wasn’t familiar with the author, so I embarked on a little research.  The first quote attributed to Gertrude Stein told me that I Write Like is onto something: “I do want to get rich, but I never want to do what there is to do to get rich.”

She had another quote that sounded pretty much like me too: “To write is to write is to write is to write is to write is to write is to write”.

Yankee legend Mickey Mantle worded it this way:  “It’s unbelievable how much you don’t know about the game you’ve been playing all your life.” - Mickey Mantle

Starbucks legend Joi words it this way:Holy cats. I didn’t know what I thought I knew.

Funny, isn’t it? You can do something for what seems like your whole life and then suddenly realize that you didn’t know quite as much as you thought you did.  It happened to me recently and I’m still reeling.  You might think this would be a distressing, sickening feeling but, truth be told, I’m completely invigorated and excited.

Knowledge does that to me.  Especially when it comes bearing fruit such as new horizons, fresh opportunities, and unlimited possibilities.

As you know, I’ve been working online for well over 12 years.   Currently, I have 14 blogs and websites.   When it comes to traffic, generating income, and so on – the majority of them do quite well.   They’re like kids.  Some are over-achievers, some are under achievers, and some are so quiet, I forget they’re even in the room.

Since I work from home, I”m allowed the luxury of researching seo (search engine optimization), themes, plugins, and so forth.  I know (and use) the best themes online and work hard to stay on top of the best plugins, optimization practices, and so on.  Quite honestly, I thought I was sitting on a seriously impressive amount of information and skill.  Then…..

Holy cats! I didn’t know what I thought I knew.

I recently installed the Scribe SEO Copywriting Made Simple plugin on a few of my blogs and have been overjoyed with what I’ve seen so far.   I want, not only to make my future posts and articles as SEO-friendly as possible, but to go back to older posts and perk them up as well.  You know, the early posts of a blog when you didn’t even know what SEO or Meta Descriptions were.   These old posts can still get traffic and they still have a lot to offer – but they’ll never reach their potential if no one knows they’re there.

Originally, I was going to use Scribe SEO  for a few weeks, or even a month, and see if the results were impressive enough to recommend to my readers.  As you know if you read Self Help Daily regularly, I absolutely, positively am not in the hait of recommending very many products or services. One of the reasons for this is that when I do – I want you to know I flat out mean business.  It’s also a personal thing, I hate, loathe, and despise any newsletter or blog that sees me as nothing but a dollar tree with nothing but bracelets and money on its branches.   If a product, tool, theme, or service convinces me that it could help some of the people I value the most (my readers) – I’ll share it with them.  But I hold these things under a magnifying glass for quite a while first.

The problem with this original “wait and see” plan was that I fell in love with Scribe on the first date.  Indeed, it was love at first site.

From Scribe SEO.com

In the old days, a scribe was a writer entrusted to record the most valuable and important information for kings, nobles, and cities.

These days, Scribe™ helps writers create content that gets found online, and that’s become as valued and important as any old scroll or parchment.

Scribe is an SEO software service for WordPress that analyzes the content of web pages, blog posts, online press releases, you name it… at the click of a button

Scribe is as easy to use as pouring a cup of coffee.  After installing and activating (easy, easy, easy), you simply write your post, article, or page as you normally would.  The Scribe Content Optimizer shows up on the right with the other WP-Admin widgets (Post Tags, Categories…).  When you think you’re finished, click the button that says Analyze.  In a few seconds, Scribe lets you know what you’ve done well and what you could improve upon.

Before installing Scribe, I knew it was going to be fantastic.  Brian Clark (Copyblogger) is behind it and he would never put his name on anything that wasn’t 100 percent golden.  Because of this, he has a reputation online that few attain and all desire.   However, over the years I’ve seen a lot of tools and services come around the bend.  Most of the time, you get either what you expected or less than you expected.  This is one of the few times when I got far more than I expected.

What Scribe Can Do For You

Okay, let’s get down to the heart of the matter.  I know a lot of my readers are bloggers.  I know a lot of you are very talented and successful authors with blogs and websites of your own.  I also have quite a few publicist friends who follow Self Help Daily.  While all of you are, no doubt, happy for me and my new beloved plugin, you’re no doubt wondering, “What can Scribe do for me?

  • Scribe can help you rank better in the search engines – The better you rank, the more people will find you.
  • Scribe can free up the time you have to spend actively looking for visitors, buyers, prospects, etc.  This SEO tool will cause people to come to you rather than you having to go to them.
  • Scribe will give you a valuable education in SEO, keywords, meta descriptions, copywriting for search engine optimization, and so on.  If you desire a strong online presence and following, this education is priceless.
  • You won’t have to wonder if you did “this” or “that” right – Scribe will let you know… all with the click of one button.

Scribe as Your Own Personal SEO Assistant

I work online all day.  Everyday. I also am an avid cook who isn’t quite happy if she can’t spend at least a couple of hours each day cooking.  Add to this a house that refuses to clean itself, cats that think it’s always the right time to play, movies that must be watched, shopping that must be done,  flower and herb beds to work in, birds to watch, articles to write, daily exercise, and a host of other things that fall under the category LIFE.  Because of the blissful business, I’ve often thought, “How cool would it be to have an assistant?!“  Because I’m not trained in the ways of search engine optimization, the assistant in my fantasies always was an SEO genius.  And worked for free.  Well, I’d give her all the coffee she could drink.

Now I have my assistant and I don’t have to share my coffee.  The Scribe Content Optimizer is a virtual SEO assistant – sitting right beside you as you work, giving you advice and coaching you in the ways of  SEO.  What’s more, Scribe is very inexpensive.   I know for a fact that it could be priced higher than it is.  The opportunities that this service will open up are nothing short of outstanding.

When I first saw all that Scribe SEO entails and saw, firsthand, what it can do for my blogs/sites, I felt a little bit ill.  I couldn’t help wondering where my sites would be right now if I’d been utilizing these simple techniques all along.  I couldn’t help wondering how much more traffic my sites could have, how much better they’d rank in Google, how many more advertisers I could have generated, and so on.

Then it occurred to me, the game is far from over.  I can create search engine friendly posts forevermore AND go back and tweak all of  my older posts.  After all, it’s a never-ending game.  The sweet thing is Scribe just put Albert Pujols in my starting line up.

Batter up!

I strongly urge you to go immediately to Scribe SEO Copywriting Made Simple and give yourself the edge you need – not just to compete in the competitive world of blogging – but to win.  (This link is an affiliate link – but I had this post written and published BEFORE the affiliate program was even in place.)

SEO Copywriting Made Simple

EDIT:  I’ve had mad success with optimizing old posts as well as new posts thanks to the Scribe SEO plugin.  You know my “Save the World” complex?  It’s so kicking in – I wish I could put the Scribe SEO plugin in everyone’s arsenal.   Like I said at the first, I didn’t know what I thought I knew. Holy Cats.

I, personally, am not on the lookout for a new premium wordpress theme on any of my blogs. But after seeing these gorgeous premium themes, I kind of wish I were.  I’ll be honest, I did a quick run-through in my mind of each of my blogs – more or less hoping one would scream “Re-do me!”

No such luck.

But I’m so in love with these themes – and with the deal – I may just have to think of a new blog!  The themes causing me all of this trouble are the ElegantThemes and it has been a while since I’ve seen something so appropriately named.  If you are currently looking for a theme for your blog, you have to look at these beautiful themes.  Also,  if you have a website that looks outdated and you want a new layout, consider a blog.  They’re golden with search engines, easier to update and maintain, and with themes such as these, they’ll look as professional, up-to-date, and gorgeous as any site online.

Here’s the Coolness of these Themes:

When you sign up, you get access to ALL of the ElegantThemes for just $19.95 a year.  I think there are currently nearly 30 themes.  The Elegant Themes are always compatible with the latest WordPress release, as well as with the most popular Internet browsers.  Also, each theme comes with a unique set of features. Click one of the links within this post to jump over to the ElegantThemes gallery.  Then, click “features” to view a list of each themes features and “preview” to see a live demo of the theme.

When you sign up, you get downloadable access to all of these professional and handsome themes, including those added after you signup!   All for $19.95 per year.  It’s kind of like having your own personal designer on retainer – for about $1.50 a month!

More:

  • If you cancel your membership, you still keep the themes that were released when you were a paying member.
  • All payments are handled through paypal.  You don’t even have to worry about remembering your payments, Paypal will automatically bill you for the next year – unless, of course, you cancel your membership.
  • A support forum is available – and everyone seems to be in a good mood… always a good sign! ;)

*** On the Bold Theme  (a personal favorite), check out how they’ve handled the social media icons – love it!

Beautiful Fox in the SnowFirefox SO made the list.

I’m not sure why my advice would be sought out on anything outside of cooking, Angelina Jolie movies, birds, what to order at Starbucks (anything caffeinated), or how to raise daughters or cats (I’m sitting on a goldmine of information there).  However, I receive countless e-mails, each week, asking my advice about blogging.  People realize that blogs are here to stay and want to get in on the self-expression, interaction, and fun.  They also wouldn’t mind if a dollar or two came their way as a result.

They know that, as someone with (currently) 16 blogs – I know  the ins and outs of plugins, themes, posts, domains, affiliates, and so on.  I’ve been doing this for a long time and have gotten to the place where I’m actually making money by doing something that feels like play.

Success!

I’ve been responding, of course, to the e-mails one on one – but I realized that it’d be simpler to compile a post that I could point inquiring minds to.  So, I’ve compiled my own personal list for new bloggers.  It could also, of course, be for established bloggers who want to pull themselves out of a rut.

I don’t claim to know everything – in fact, I learn something new every day…. But here’s what I know today:

  1. If you’re even half-serious about what you’re doing, you need your own domain name. You have to let everyone know that you mean business and separate yourself from the rest. I religiously use and highly recommend Go Daddy. Outside of coffee, a cat in your lap, and my husband’s blue eyes, few things in life are perfect – however, Go Daddy is the perfect registrar. Don’t even think of using anyone else.
  2. You’ll want a great host with help available to you 24/7. In a time when different companies are closing their doors each day, you want a host that has been around a while and is successful enough to be around forever.  (That’s another great thing about Go Daddy – you know they aren’t going anywhere!)   We’re hosted by a gator (Host Gator: Domain Hosting Only $9.95 a Month) and I wouldn’t recommend anything else. Host Gator isn’t going anywhere – except down in history as the greatest host ever.
  3. Number’s 1 and 2 are, of course, assuming you already know what your blog’s subject will be about. Online, you’ll often see this referred to as your niche, I call it your thang. If you aren’t clear on what your thang is, simply ask yourself, “What am I passionate about?  What could I spend 3 hours talking about and not even want to take a breath?
  4. When choosing an url and name for your blog, use common sense. People don’t want to be bothered or annoyed, so don’t come up with a long, drawn-out name and I wouldn’t use any words that are difficult to spell.  Go Daddy offers suggestions when you do a domain search.  For example, if you chose Self Help Daily as your domain name (you silly) – Go Daddy would let you know that this domain name is taken, but they’ll offer up a list of alternatives.  My advice on domain names is this:  Try very hard to put your niche somewhere in the name.  Consider the following words as words you can add before or after your niche to separate it from the rest:  daily, today, online, resource, blog, central – you get the idea.
  5. As highly as I recommend Go Daddy and Host Gator, I even more highly recommend WordPress. It’s free.  It’s the best.  And WordPress.org has everything you could possibly need:  Plugins, Themes, and a great forum.  There are also countless WordPress tutorials online that’ll help you every step of the way.  When you search WordPress Tutorials in Google, it finds 14,900,000 of them.  So, basically, with wordpress, you have 14 million people sitting around the computer with you, helping you every step of the way.  Dance on.
  6. Consider buying a premium theme. You’ll find tons of free themes on WordPress.org, but be very, very careful.  When I first began blogging (seems like 100 years ago), I used free themes on each of my blogs.  The attribute you were required to leave at the bottom of the page  fairly screamed “Freebie!” – but I pushed that thought out of my mind for as long as I could.  However, I soon found out that free themes not only lack the support given to paid themes, their developers often “drop the ball,” as  in they stop wanting anything to do with the theme.  People who are making money from themes don’t drop the ball – not when it’s a money ball!  Plus, their reputation is on the line. Chris Pearson, for example, is tied to the wonderful Thesis Theme.   I use Thesis on Self Help Daily, Get Cooking, Out of Bounds, Hollywood Yesterday, and Office Freaks. When your name is attached to something, you stay up day and night making sure it’s impeccable. It’s not just your theme that’s on the line, your name is. I would not hesitate a second before recommending the Thesis Theme. I’m also familiar with the WP Prolific theme from Solo Stream and have nothing but love for it.  The people behind this theme are uncommonly friendly and helpful and their theme’s gorgeous. I can’t put my finger on it, but there’s just something extra-special about the way the people behind this theme treat others – in e-mail, on forums, etc.  They show respect and gratitude in a manner that, when you walk away, you think, “Cool people!”  I used WP Prolific when creating a business site for a company my husband works with (Here).  I’d recommend looking at their  wonderful themes and finding the one that’ll work best for you.
  7. Domain? Check. Host? Check.  Niche? Check.  Theme? Check.  Now get cracking! One of the first things you’ll want to do is to find your voice.  Sit down and write an introductory post – or even your About Page.  Write as though you are writing to a friend or family member. Be conversational and colorful.  Don’t worry about your sentences being too short.  Big whoop!  Don’t try to be grammatically perfect – boring – and try not to come across like an instruction manual or textbook.  After you’ve typed in a few paragraphs, go back and read what you’ve written. Does it sound as though the words are words you’d actually say?  If so, you’ve found your voice.
  8. This sort of goes along with #7, but it’s important enough to deserve its own number:  Be original. Cookie cutter blogs and cookie cutter writers are a dime a dozen.  You want to stand out, not blend in. As Paris Hilton once said, “Life’s too short to blend it.“   I don’t really do it anymore (I keep myself more than busy), but when I created blogs for others, there was one thing that always drove me nuts:  When they’d say, “I want my blog to look like this blog or that blog.”  Then they’d give me links to blogs that’d caught their eye.  Why would you want yours to look like someone else?!  It’s not fair to the original and it makes you just an average Joe… a knock off.  That’s never cool.  I also hate to see others try to write like someone else – find your own voice, not someone else’s. Why would you want to be a parrot?  Of course, theres’ nothing wrong with being inspired by someone else – or even taking an idea and putting it to use… we all do that.  But when you go so far as to try to match your blue to their blue, the size of your comment box to theirs, and so on – you’re a stalker!
  9. Give every aspect of your blog a lot of thought. The about page, the contact page, the sitemap, and the categories.  You want your entire site to flow together and you want it to be cohesive.
  10. Name your categories thoughtfully, using “keywords” that people would search for in Google. This will help them find you! If you aren’t found, you aren’t blogging, you’re keeping a diary online.
  11. While on the topic of being found, read up on SEO – Search Engine Optimization. If you use the Thesis theme, you really don’t have to worry about SEO that much.  Everything is built right into the theme.  If you use other themes, you’ll need the All in One SEO plugin.
  12. Plugins are love, beauty, poetry, and all that’s wonderful in the world. When you go to “Add New” under the Plugins category in your WP-Admin, you can search for and easily add plugins that’ll help make your blog more functional for you and your visitors. This is the fastest and easiest way to add plugins.  Below are some of my current favorite plugins.
  13. CommentLuv. This plugin is in use here on Self Help Daily. When someone leaves a comment on your blog, CommentLuv includes the title of their last blog post, if applicable.  It’s pretty cool and I think it’s a great way to thank your visitors for their comments.
  14. Anit-Spam Plugins. Akismet is a great anti-spam plugin that most people use. I, however, use Peter’s Random Anti-Spam. Peter has has different versions of his spam plugins since the beginning of time and I’ve never used any spam plugin that didn’t have his name in front of  it. (See EDIT at the bottom.)
  15. Google XML Sitemaps Plugin. You’ll definitely need this one – it acts as Google’s GPS and allows them to find you.  I don’t even have to tell you how much you want that!  After you install the plugin, go to it’s page (within your wp-admin) and customize it.  Be sure to link to your xml sitemap in your footer.
  16. PS Auto Sitemap. I love the PS Auto Sitemap plugin so much I want to buy it nice things.  It makes the sweetest looking sitemap I’ve ever seen on a blog.  It has several options available in a drop-down box that will allow you to customize it further.  It’s so slick it’s sick.
  17. RSS Footer.  This plugin allows you to put something personal in the footer of your RSS feed.  I haven’t checked on mine in two forevers – I’m just hoping it doesn’t say something like, “Happy New Year 2000!”  {Note to self: Check on that.}
  18. Sociable. This plugin creates the bar you see at the end of each post – allowing the reader to share, e-mail, print, etc.  You get to customize the buttons you include and even the words above the buttons. The fun sociable plugin is a must have.
  19. Subscribe to Comments. A must have plugin.
  20. Thesis Openhook – if you use Thesis, you’ll sing the praises of Openhook’s developer each time you use it.
  21. YARPP – Yet Another Related Post Plugin. This plugin is golden and I love it muchly.  Featuring related posts at the end of your blog posts gives your readers more reasons to stay on your site.  Best of all, it allows them to conveniently find relevant information that can help them – all neat and tidy.  This plugin is as flawless as you’d want it to be.
  22. Contact Form 7. The best and easiest way to set up a contact form.  You always want to be easy to reach and it doesn’t get much easier than a contact form.
  23. Money. Money. Money. Some blogs lend themselves extremely well to making a profit.  I can tell you, from experience, that if you’re looking to make money online with a blog, the following topics are RIPE:  Fashion blogs, cat blogs, dog blogs, cooking blogs, “green” living blogs, living on a budget,  fitness, and home decorating blogs.  One thing to keep in mind is this, if you’re going to sell products (probably through affiliate links), you want the products to cost enough to make it worth your while.  Something else to remember: Pet lovers will spend, irregardless of the economy.  We’re like economy shmonomy, baby needs a new bed!  If you have a favorite breed of dog, you could have a very successful blog built entirely around her.  Ironically, I was in the middle of creating a dog blog when our dog (Wednesday) died.  Broken-hearted, I pulled the plug on the blog.
  24. Non-Money Blogs. Self Help Daily isn’t one of my “money blogs” – in fact, if I had to rely solely on SHD for income, I’d be hitting up Church mice for loans!  Oddly enough, however, it’d be one of the last ones I’d ever want to lose.  I use this blog to try to make a difference – in individual lives.  I truly, at the core of my being, want to help other people – as well as everything with a face.   I’ve made some incredible online friends through this site and they’re more valuable than money.  I’ve also learned a great, great deal.  While researching subjects for SHD, I always learn something new.  That, my friend, is reason enough to publish a blog.  When we stop learning and growing – we stop living.
  25. My favorite sources of making money online. With my blogs that do pay the bills (Office Freaks, Cat Pause, Get Cooking, Strike a Chord, Hollywood Yesterday, Dream Prophesy, Genuine Kentucky…) I use the following and recommend them without reservation:  Google, Chitika, Commission Junction, All Posters, Linkshare, and Amazon.   It’s free, and easy, to sign up with these programs.  They’ll show you step by step what to do along the way.
  26. Back to the Design of your blog. When choosing the colors of your blog, as well as the layout, think of the tone you want to set for your audience. Do you want your blog to be relaxing and professional?  Blues, grays, and greens would be a safe palette.  Do you want to excite and motivate people – or do you intend to include a lot of humor?  You might want to go with reds, oranges, and/or yellows.  Most of all, be yourself.  You want your blog to represent you.  I walk through life with a banner over my head that says, “Coffee-Chugging, Chocolate-Devouring Animal Lover Extraordinaire” (true story), so you’ll find animals, chocolate, and coffee on all of my blogs – in one form or another.  Also, keep your audience in mind.  Here’s what I mean:  On my Cat Blog, I use colors (and actually even a tone of voice) that I might not choose for my Office Supply blog – and vice versa.  Different readership.  Take a look around at the other blogs, forums, and sites in your niche.  While you want to stand out… if you stand too far from the pack, they’ll never even give you a chance.  Some have been eaten alive.  Remember:  You’re writing for them, they aren’t reading for you.
  27. Make your content easy to read. This means that black letters on a white background is your best bet.   Keep in mind that monitors vary greatly – so colors will be darker on some computers than others.  However, a white background and black letters can always be read – and they don’t strain anyone’s eyes.  Be sure your font is large enough also.  Keep in mind that all monitors and all eyeballs aren’t like yours!
  28. Navigation. Make it as easy as possible for  your readers to get around your site.  Have your pages clearly marked, as well as your categories.
  29. Don’t overwhelm in the sidebars. Sidebars that look like a Vegas strip are distracting and cheapen your purpose.  Money is an attractive thing, but your reputation and character shouldn’t have price tags on them.  Hopefully you work hard on your blog – don’t let a sideshow ruin your good work.
  30. When you are a blogger, or web publisher, you aren’t just one when you sit in front of the computer. I think this is where many people mess up.  They don’t even remotely think about what they’re going to say until they sit in front of the screen to write!  Keep a notebook with you 24/7 and write down ideas that come to you throughout the day.   I’m a quote diva, so I always have pen and paper handy for capturing quotes – but I also keep them nearby so I can capture ideas before they get away.
  31. Be well-read, well-informed, and in touch with what’s going on around you. I think that the best writers are the most avid readers – of newspapers, magazines, books, other blogs, and so on.  The only information some people have today is the information they had two weeks ago.  Why in the world would I want to read anything they had to say?!
  32. Be respectful. In your blog, if you throw words like stupid, bone-head, jerk, and so on around – you belong on a playground, not online.   Be professional and show respect to others.  You can disagree with choices others make, you can disagree with things they say and so – but who are any of us to make fun of them or throw stones?  Personally, I think when people use their blogs or websites as places to wage battles or throw stones – they show a lack of maturity and professionalism that makes them look as bad (maybe worse) than the person they’re gunning for.  If a celebrity, athlete, or public figure falls from grace – don’t stand by, pointing and laughing.  Have more class than that.   Remember – chances are good that they have innocent family members and you are only contributing to their pain.
  33. Don’t be afraid to take a stand. As #32 proves, I’m just not afraid to take a stand – whether I’m standing there completely alone or not. You shouldn’t be either. If you believe in your thoughts and convictions – go for it!  This is another reason to be respectful toward others.  What goes around (always, always, always) comes around.  If you’re respectful to others, chances are they’ll be respectful to you – even if they don’t agree with you completely.
  34. Write. Write. Write… And then write some more. Do you know when I actually found myself as a writer?  When my husband and I  got married, I was only 19.  He was in the Air Force and we had to move far away from our family.  I missed my mom, dad, aunt, uncle, and grandmother like crazy – so I wrote to them almost daily. I wrote about what I was learning to cook, I wrote about the malls in Wichita Kansas, I wrote about what was on the news, and when we started having babies – I chronicled their every move.   Frequent writing made me completely and totally comfortable with writing – as much as I was with breathing.  The same is true today.  I have many blogs which I update regularly.  Writing often leads to, in my opinion, better writing.  It keeps the brain humming along and I have never run out of words yet.
  35. Break long posts up as much as possible with bullet points, headings, bold words, etc. It will help the reader’s experience.
  36. Firefox. This may seem like an odd place for a Firefox vs IE debate – but, take it from a die-hard IE user (I clung to it for life!  The traditionalist in me had to have her fingers pried off the big blue e!):  Firefox makes your life easier when it comes to blogging.  When you’re typing along in your editor (or even leaving comments on other blogs), the Fox lets you know immediately if you have a typing error or, somehow, misspelled a word.  Like a good little teacher, he underlines the offensive word with his red marker.  This way, you can go back immediately and correct the error.  (For example, my hands – which are frankly tired at this point – just mistyped the error instead of the error.  I saw the red line and was able to correct it pronto.  If I’d gone back to re-read this post… Heaven help me… I’m pretty sure I would have missed it.  We tend to know what we meant, so that’s what we see!)  Trust me on this one:  Try Firefox for a week and see if you aren’t hooked.
  37. Add photos to your posts. You can add a lot to your blog by adding great pictures.  If you’re lucky enough to have a great camera, you can even provide the artwork yourself!  If not, search for pictures in the public domain, or find pictures that you can use along with credit.  There are also a lot of great photo sites, where you can pay for the pictures you’d like to use.
  38. If you have an All Posters account, using a great looking poster in the post looks sensational AND will earn you money! All Posters is, consistently, one of my best sources of income.
  39. Here’s something pretty cool. You can download IrfanView (free free free).  It’s a must have tool, if you ask me.  I use it for resizing pictures, turning them into black and white pictures, taking out chunks, and so forth.  But here’s the extra-cool thing:  You can even give your photos some cool effects – such as “oil painting, sepia, negative” and so on.   I use Photoshop for most graphics and banners, but IrfanView is a fantastic tool.
  40. Keep on keeping on. Remember the words of Will Rogers, “Even if youre on the right track, youll get run over if you just sit there.” The world wide web is littered with blogs that are nothing but little spots on the road.  Someone got to a point where they just threw up their hands and quit.  Maybe they had writer’s block for a week or two, maybe their knowledge (back to the perils of not reading and learning) dried up, or maybe they got discouraged from a lack of traffic, comments, money, or all three.  The sad thing is, if they had fought THROUGH any of these obstacles – they would have grown by leaps and bounds.  Nothing like a good fight to give you strength you never knew you had!  When you hit a wall, climb over it or walk around it – even if it takes you a while.  It beats sitting down at the foot of the wall and letting it win.  The view from that side of the wall never changes – make the effort to climb over and see new horizons!
  41. Twitter. I’m comparatively new to Twitter and don’t spend nearly as much time tweeting as I should.  Not nearly enough!  It’s something I’ve talked to me about and I’ve promised to try harder.  It’s just so darned hard for me to speak with so few words!  My husband can attest to that.
  42. E-Mail Signatures. When you have any sort of e-mail correspondence with anyone, include a link to your blog (and maybe even your twitter page) beneath your name.  When I see someone’s link in an e-mail message, I always check it out.  Most people do.
  43. Forums. Forums are goldmines of people all gathered together to discuss a particular subject.   Google your niche (your thang) then add a plus sign and forum.  When I put up my cat blog, I sought out cat forums to generate a following.  I googled Cats + forums and found that I’m far from the only cat lover in the world.  We’re a passionate bunch, too!
  44. Articles are a great way to promote your blog. I need to make more time for article writing – it’s extremely important.  Visit Ezinearticles.com and GoArticles for rules and guidelines.
  45. Submit Guest Posts to other blogs. If you write a great, unpublished article that would be relevant to another blog, most blog publishers will be more than happy to take a look at it.  They’ll often publish it, too.  I’ve published quite a few on my blogs.  At the end of your article, you include a word or two about yourself with a link to your blog.  Great exposure!
  46. Invite Guest Posts on Your own blog. It’s a great way to get fresh viewpoints, free content, and make new online friends.  Plus, the individual will tell their own readers “Go check out what I’ve written…”  – bringing you more traffic.
  47. In the sidebar, as a courtesy to your commentators, include the “Recent Comments” widget. It gives credit to those who are taking the time to share their thoughts and it gives a nice little link to their blog or site.
  48. Keep it Classy, please. This is another personal preference (like the “Show Respect” one), but, come on,  maintain a certain level of class and decency.  For one thing, people will come away from what you’ve written with a certain idea of who you are.  If your words paint the picture of a crass, crude, vulgar, and tasteless individual – that’s how others will see you.  What would your momma say?! Also, keep in mind that kids can see what you put up whether you intended for them to or not.  I spend enough time online to know that there simply aren’t many ladies and gentlemen left anymore.  There’s a real lack of class out there. (Why do so many women think that to be taken seriously or to come across as “tough” they have to use language that’s drop the jaw of a veteran marine?)  Be professional and keep it classy.
  49. Don’t stress about the number of comments! On Self Help Daily, for example, I get about 10 e-mails for every one comment.  My readers simply prefer to talk about subjects in e-mail!  That’s perfectly fine with me. After all, some things are kind of private and most people don’t want to own up to nasty tempers or a fear of the dark.   I used to stress over comments, but I honestly don’t think about them much any more.   I treasure the ones I get, but don’t give the ones I don’t get a second thought.
  50. Keep your priorities straight. Yes, to succeed you’ll need to write and write often.  You’ll also need to network, tweet, read, research, and so on.  But, remember, you have a life!  Don’t ever let your family see the back of your head more than they do the front!  Remember to get plenty of exercise, play with the kids, take the wife out to dinner, take the husband to a movie, play with your cats, do the dishes…. Actually, the more you have going on in your life, the better your writing will be.  Those who sit in front of a computer for 95 percent of their day tend to bore the leaves off of a tree and the feathers off of an owl.
  51. Link to others generously. Don’t get so caught up rounding up links to your blog that you act like a 3 year old on a playground:  “Give me, give me, give me!“  If someone has a great site or information that your readers would benefit from, link to it… without even thinking about a link back.  Also, be courteous when seeking out links.  Don’t ever contact someone then expect them to link you first.  Pet peeve!  I hate rudeness like that. No one wears rudeness well.
  52. Keep an eye on stats, but don’t become obsessive. If people spent as much time creating content and writing as they do researching keywords, search engine stats, and so forth they’d be a lot better off.
  53. I’m sure I’ve said this before, but it’s that important:  Write for your readers! They are the ones who matter.  Make the experience about them, not you.  If someone disagrees with you, thank them for keeping you on your toes!  You don’t have to see eye to eye on everything.  Be respectful. Be mature. Be courteous.
  54. Go back periodically and double-check older posts. Never change the post slug, but feel free to make amendments within the post if need be.   People find old posts – through search engines and through your “related posts.”  Never neglect old posts – it may be the first encounter a new reader has with you.  I often go back and at least add an EDIT to the bottom – to flesh out what I should have said, or make changes if there need to be any.

I’m sure that at some point, something else will pop into my head.  Isn’t that the way it goes? When it happens, I’ll come back and edit this post. If you have any tips to add.. please do so in the comments!  – Joi

Blogs and Resources That are Worth Their Weight in Gold:

How to Make My Blog
Problogger: Secrets for Blogging Your Way to a Six-figure Income

Problogger.net

EDITS: I”m currently madly in love with the plugin WP-SPAMFREE.  It’s the best spam plugin I’ve used.

#20:  New versions of Thesis are now so incredibly customizable and sexy they don’t require this plugin.

Below is an ace-high post for those of us who are Computer Cowboys and Cowgirls. If you also spend a ridiculous amount of time saddled up to a desk, you probably fret as much as I do about not getting  enough activity.  At the end of a long, hard ride, I feel pert’ near worthless.   (So now you know what a Kentuckian sounds like when she’s trying to be a cowgirl.)

The post, Ten Ways to Get Fit While Blogging is on Pro Blogger and it’s a must read, amigos. (Amigos?? What?  My inner cowgirl’s Spanish?)

I’m actually on an exercise ball now as I’m typing.  My cat, Alexa, is certain I’ve lost my mind completely.  Wait’ll I start singing Happy Trails.

Cowboy Hat

Friday Smorgasbord post!

  • This is pretty cool. No, no. It’s all kinds of cool.  You know the little icon beside your name when you leave comments on blogs?  If you don’t know, shame on you! Get busy! You can create your own (actually as many as you want, as long as you have an e-mail for each one) at Gravatar.com. It’s as easy as falling on ice.  You sign up for an account, which takes all of 2 minutes.  They’ll e-mail you a link to use.  Follow said link to a page where you’ll upload the picture you want as your gravatar.  They’ll tell  you what size it needs to be, etc.   Then, whenever you comment on Self Help Daily (okay, okay, any blog), your individualized little picture will show up beside your name.  You can use a photo of yourself, a cup of coffee, a pet, a symbol, etc.  You’ll never guess what I use for one of mine.   Okay, you guessed.  Polar bears.  To see it, click on the previous post and scroll down, looking for my name.   Cute, huh?  I also have icons that I use along with other e-mails/for other sites.  One is an orange cat sticking his tongue out (why not?), one is my beautiful cat Alexa, one’s a Starbucks cup  and one’s a purse.  These are a few of my favorite things…
  • Speaking of commments… check out the comments in the blog post Meet Your Truest Self Author Janice Lynne Lundy. There are some wonderful tips and links within the comments.  Great stuff !
  • Tomorrow morning I’ll be adding a review to the site for the wonderful book Road Rules. This is one very special book, so be sure to check it out.  I’m normally not a very fast reader (with my penchant for taking notes, I’m pretty slow actually) – but my pen and I cut through this book like a knife through soft chocolate.  Hey, cut through butter if you want to, but I’m going with chocolate.

Have a great weekend and if you haven’t already – go see Gran Torino.  Clint Eastwood and his beautiful young co-stars are breathtakingly brilliant and the movie will blow you away.

You’ll never know if you like something or not unless you try it… unless you give it a really good shot. Below are a few things that I’ve come to swear by. To varying degrees, these things can make your life healthier, easier, less stressful, happier, and, yes, even better. They have mine! Which is why I’m passing them along to you.

  1. Mozilla Firefox Browser. I fought this one tooth and nail for a long time.   As someone who spends at least Firefox Browser half the day working online, I resented the new kid in town.  I didn’t want to have to start designing, coding, and manipulating the way my websites and blogs looked to compensate a fox, however cute he (she?) was.  And to be honest, in its early days, Firefox didn’t read stylesheets very well and things were pretty screwy looking in the Firefox Browser.  The fox has come a long way in a short time, though.  Frankly, when it comes to blogging, I only use the Firefox browser now.   There are a lot of aspects that just work better, faster, and easier in Firefox.  One of my favorites is the spell check function.  I’m a good speller and I pride myself on that.  However, as I said, I spend a lot of time writing and typing, so mistypes will happen.  When I’m typing my posts in the Firefox browser and make a mistake, the fox nudges my hand as though to say, “Are we spelling it that way today?”  Then I can slow down enough to realize that, actually, I’d rather go ahead and hit the e instead of the r or add an extra l.   It’s a lot easier than reading and re-reading, or (I hate this one!) finding it days later and wondering if your readers thought you were a total idiot!  Note:  Firefox doesn’t appreciate contractions, and will nudge you (by underlining the word in red) when you use one.  You can work around this by left clicking the contraction when you use it and clicking Add to Dictionary.  You can do the same with words it hasn’t learned yet like yabba dabba do and fugly.   For someone like me who makes up words to suit what they’re trying to say, this is functionlicious.
  2. You could have had a V8! You should have had a V8! I’ve already preached to you fairly recently about getting your quota of vegetables and fruits.  In short, you probably aren’t getting enough.  Unless you want a future appointment with the likes of cancer, weight problems, Alzheimer’s, heart disease, high blood pressure – you need to have between 5 to 8 servings daily.  That’s where V8 comes in.  One can, alone, counts for 2 servings of vegetables.  The ones I buy (regular V8) have only 70 calories, but the sodium is more than what a lot of people would want it to be.  If you’re watching sodium, try their Low Sodium variety.  Also check out V8′s various juices.  They’re all delicious, healthy, and a very convenient way to sneak in extra vitamins and V8 Juiceantioxidants.   V8 for Sinus Problems:  According to Nature’s Natural Healing, V8 is a great friend to have when your sinuses are bullying you.  Their suggestion is to add 1 to 2 tablespoons of freshly squeezed lemon juice, a clove or two of garlic, and a couple of dashes of hot sauce to a large glass of V8.   Heat it up and enjoy.  Apparently, in addition to the vitamin c and germ killing powers of garlic, this boosts your immune system AND the hot sauce clears the sinuses.  Oh, yeah, I’m trying this today.  My sinuses are just fine, mind you, but I’m trying this today.
  3. Support your local community. With the economy the way it is, it’s wiser than ever to support your own community.  Sure, buying things online (or in a distant town) is necessary sometimes, but whenever possible, support your local stores.  It makes a lot of sense to keep your money at home, after all.  Think of it as helping your own neighbors as opposed to helping someone else’s neighbors.
  4. Don’t let the scales keep you from Starbucks. Instead of Lions, Tigers, and Bears, Oh My!  – Some of us cry, “Fraps, Cappuccinos, and Lattes, Oh Thighs!”  But don’t become a stranger with your favorite baristas, just order smarter.  Try the delicious Tazo teas, for example.  Wild Sweet Orange and Passion are a few personal Starbucks!favorites – and if you’re feeling really fiesty, order a grande with one Wild Sweet Orange bag and one Passion bag.  Heavenly and no calories.  Also, fall in love with their coffee, black and beautiful.  They even have a few new drinks that are kinder to the waistline, Apple Chai – which I’d walk three miles barefoot for – and London Fog (ditto with the miles and barefeet).  As for lattes, fraps, and the other sexy but fattening drinks, experiment with skim milk.   Ask the barista to make them as figure friendly as possible.  You’ll get used to the difference, it really isn’t that noticeable –   the way your jeans fit will be much more noticeable!
  5. Get your e-mail traffic to within reason for a sane human being. I know, I know – not so easy.  Personally, I love helpful, informative newsletters, and I’m not going to pretend that I’ve unsubscribed to all of them – or to my News Alerts (love, love, love News Alerts), but I have cut down on extra e-mail that really didn’t serve a point.  I didn’t want any formal e-mails taking away attention from the personal ones – you know the ones that come from one actual person, they’re the most important ones.  If they care enough to contact E-Mailme, I don’t want anyone trying to jump in front of them.   I recently had that very thing happen.  An e-mail from a young woman got, somehow, shuffled in the midst of news alerts and newsletters.  I was 3 days late in finding it and responding to her.  THANK GOD, it wasn’t anything pressing (she actually wanted my recipe for a Cocount Cake I’d mentioned).  I apologized profusely for not replying right away and she said that I answered her faster than most people did.  (I guess letting your e-mail get out of control’s a popular problem).  At any rate, it was a lesson I learned right away.  I check my e-mail more often now and have cut way back on the the newsletters.  The ones that remain know they’re incredibly special!
  6. Get a Laptop. If you’ve been flirtting with the idea of a laptop, go ahead and ask one out.  My husband began talking about getting one months ago.  We already have 3 computers in the house (with 5 people in the house, it’s not as extreme as it sounds), so when he expressed the desire for another one, I at least assumed he meant a desktop, personal computer.  When he said he was leaning toward a laptop, I thought he was nuts.  But he said it’d be great for me to carry around the house and use wherever I happen to be.  He knows how much I LOVE Beautiful male cardinal.watching the birds in the front yard (out of our dining room and kitchen windows) and he knew how cool it’d be for me to sit at the table, writing while watching the cardinals, doves, bluebirds, robins, etc enjoying the food I leave out for them.  Well, guess where I’m writing from now – all while keeping my eyes on about 12 cardinals enjoying breadcrumbs in the snow.  Alexa (our youngest cat) is beside me, also keeping her eyes on them.  I love the laptop so much I can’t imagine NOT having it.   For anyone who is nearsighted, even slightly, they’ll appreciate how close you are to the screen of a laptop.  And for busybodies like myself, you’ll love the fact that they’re always in the mood to pick up and go at a moment’s notice.
  7. Read more! I’m in the middle of two wonderful books right now and excerpts and reviews are forthcoming:  The UltraMind Solution by Mark Hyman, M.D. (a fascinating read for those of us fascinated with mental fitness), and Road Rules by Andrew Sherman (you’re going to love this one!). Challenge yourself to read more books each month.  Your mind loves to learn new things and books are little gateways to knowledge.

EDIT: I just found this, but didn’t want to post a new post – I want the Martin Luther King Jr post to stay on top for the remainder of the day.   If you have a wordpress blog (and you should, you really really should), you have to check out http://wordpress.tv/.  If you’re new to the world of WordPress, you’ll especially love all of the video tutorials.  They do all but come into your house and do it for you.   The best just gets bester (firefox is going to love that one).